Koparde Yuvvray Dameer, India-People get excluded from a group for a single reason- themselves.
People get excluded from a group for a single reason- themselves. The problem of exclusion is not one sided. In a reasonable situation, a person is excluded because of their actions or repeated behaviours or personality that are objectively negative or have caused harm to someone or something; like excluding someone because they litter or smoke, or acted poorly in a situation hurting their friends. However, humans are not reasonable, especially children. A person could be excluded for superficial or downright irrational reasons. Jealousy, financial status, fashion choice, natural beauty (or lack thereof), choice of hobbies, sexual orientation, religion, country/place of birth or a person just doesn't like you, are often the apparant reasons for excluding or bullying a person at school but these are just excuses. To a person wanting to exclude you, everything is a reason to exclude you, even things you cannot change about yourself. Everything you do is wrong to them. For this kind...