Koparde Yuvvray Dameer, India-People get excluded from a group for a single reason- themselves.

 People get excluded from a group for a single reason- themselves. The problem of exclusion is not one sided. In a reasonable situation, a person is excluded because of their actions or repeated behaviours or personality that are objectively negative or have caused harm to someone or something; like excluding someone because they litter or smoke, or acted poorly in a situation hurting their friends. However, humans are not reasonable, especially children. A person could be excluded for superficial or downright irrational reasons. Jealousy, financial status, fashion choice, natural beauty (or lack thereof), choice of hobbies, sexual orientation, religion, country/place of birth or a person just doesn't like you, are often the apparant reasons for excluding or bullying a person at school but these are just excuses. To a person wanting to exclude you, everything is a reason to exclude you, even things you cannot change about yourself. Everything you do is wrong to them. For this kind of irrational exclusion there is no better solution than to find better friends. Exclusion is universal.

 People everywhere get excluded. It preys on social validation, and the desire for friends; which is a universal feeling that trancends language barriers and cultural differences. This problem can be mitigated by increasing the collective emotional maturity of the human population which can let people have a healthy fulfilling relationship with people around them.- by People get excluded from a group for a single reason- themselves. The problem of exclusion is not one sided. In a reasonable situation, a person is excluded because of their actions or repeated behaviours or personality that are objectively negative or have caused harm to someone or something; like excluding someone because they litter or smoke, or acted poorly in a situation hurting their friends. However, humans are not reasonable, especially children. A person could be excluded for superficial or downright irrational reasons. Jealousy, financial status, fashion choice, natural beauty (or lack thereof), choice of hobbies, sexual orientation, religion, country/place of birth or a person just doesn't like you, are often the apparant reasons for excluding or bullying a person at school but these are just excuses. To a person wanting to exclude you, everything is a reason to exclude you, even things you cannot change about yourself. Everything you do is wrong to them. For this kind of irrational exclusion there is no better solution than to find better friends. 

Exclusion is universal. People everywhere get excluded. It preys on social validation, and the desire for friends; which is a universal feeling that trancends language barriers and cultural differences. This problem can be mitigated by increasing the collective emotional maturity of the human population which can let people have a healthy fulfilling relationship with people around them.- by Koparde Yuvvray Dameer, India